Way too long

Ok i have no idea where to start because i have been gone way too long. first of all i am so grateful to have the band because it is actually working for me at this point. The hardest part is when i go out to eat with friends i have to sit and take a small bite like every 3-5 min by that time my food is actually cold.. I never finish all of my food. Also another thing this guy that i am dating cooks alot and is a big guy.. not sloppy big or anything but a big guy and when i go over to his house he will cook a lot of food.. and when i can only eat 1/2 of a chicken leg he is looking at me like i dont like his food or something. The food is good as hell i just cant eat that much and i think he is use to women asking for more food. That would have been me over a year ago but not at this point. I haven't told him that i have the lap band or anything because i dont want to hear all of that crap saying why would you do that type of crap. You know every monday he is going on a diet and i think he is actually getting mad because i am loosing a lot of weight he is like if you loose too much more you prob. wont know who i am... wow.. anyway i have a personal trainer and i work out with him 2x a week and i workout on my own 5days a week. It is kind of funny because before i started working out the weight loss was slow but this week alone i have lost 6lbs anyway i will keep up better i promise...